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I have been struggling recently with keeping a careful watch of my tongue. As I am around more and more people who use language that I do not wish to use and speak hurtfully towards others or simply complain all the time, I find myself having the desire to join them in this talk. I have been realizing however that one of my jobs a believer is to be honest but also to stand in the truth and in what God has told us to do - which will often make me stand out. I also realize that standing in this truth is not passive - I must be on my guard and work very hard sometimes in order to control my tongue.
I know that this is not quite in line with what this blog post was about but it is what I thought of as I read your post. May we always keep each other in prayer and find God's grace so much more expansive than we ever thought.
Amy
I believe one of the bigger problems is that we focus too much on how we use our mouths and pay far too little attention on using our ears well.
I believe it is a gift to have someone listen to me and I feel far more inclined to hear what they have to say after they have heard me. My goal is to learn to do this more myself. To listen. And maybe, to speak the truth I have to share.
Rick, Amy, Rebecca:
Such rich and good comments.
Thank you for joining this conversation.
Sometimes I near despair over the noise in the public square and then I hear from kindred spirits.
Blessings.
Denis,
I share your concern over the depths to which political discourse has fallen in this country completely, but I can't help but wonder if it's also possible to be too concerned about what other people think about what we say. I've been preaching through the parables in the middle of Luke recently, and in the process I've been struck again by how often our Lord spoke in a fashion seemingly calculated to shock and confuse, rather than calm the fears of his hearers. How does his example figure into your thoughts on this subject?
Greg:
That's a very good point, and one I've been pondering a bit.
Jesus' example shows the need for good communicators to use disequilibrium to help people learn--sometimes only through some sort of rational shake-up can we see the need not just to change our ideas but to adopt a whole new paradigm. But this was not a failure to speak clearly but an intentional approach on his part because he knew their (erroneous) thinking and worldview so well. In the political square, on the other hand, it seems to me people talk past each other because they do not listen, do not do the hard work of getting inside their opponent's perspective.
I've been noticing a trend, though my data is anecdotal, partial, and unscientific. I've been noting which Christians are loudest in public arguing for specific political agendas, and then privately asking them which publications/commentators they read regularly. The trend: the louder the voice the less often do they read opposing perspectives from thoughtful commentators on the other side.
Confusion in listeners can come about, I think, from the worst and the best communication. Only one of the two options leads to truth.
Denis
Thank you, Denis, for communicating this challenge in a way that inspires me to think carefully, and to communicate prayerfully in a world that often hears something that I don't mean. I am going to quietly mull this one over. Thanks for writing and calling us to faithfulness in seeking to be heard truly.
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